Men are NOT just animals that are slaves to their instincts

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In the last election, and even since then, we were made aware of just how much rape culture still persists in the U.S. To be clear: the term “rape culture” does not refer to a culture of rapists, and a culture that thinks rape is just fine. Rather, “rape culture” refers to putting the burden of prevention on the potential victims, and blaming them when they fail to protect themselves adequately.

There’s just one thing I don’t understand. In perpetuating this culture, we’re not just blaming women for being raped, we’re also telling them to expect men to be nothing more than animals who are slaves to their base instincts.

Men: WHY aren’t more of you offended by that? The culture we’ve created here assumes that you are incapable of controlling yourselves in the presence of a scantily clad woman, a flirtatious woman, a woman who is, in some way, “asking for it.” It assumes that men are essentially animals living by their instincts, instead of beings capable of higher thought and reasoning, and yes, self-control.

The rape I’m talking about is along the lines of a husband raping his wife, a man raping his girlfriend, a man walking a drunken girl home from the club and then taking advantage of her because of the way she was acting. Even a man stalking a woman walking alone on a darkened street or through a parking garage, though at least some men who do that are ill and in need of help.

Men, I’m a WOMAN and I’m offended by this. I know you can rise above your instincts. I’m a WOMAN who’s angry not just on behalf of all the women out there by rape culture, but also on behalf of YOU, because the assumption is out there that you’re just

animals! So why don’t we hear more outrage from MEN about this?

Or is my head in the sand? Feel free to tell me my head’s in the sand and that you ARE outraged and I’m just that unobservant. But if you’re not outraged, you should be. Men CAN think reasonably, and act reasonably. You’re not animals. So if you’re outraged, good. If not, you should be.


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